Is love the only ingredient for a successful relationship? tt's one of the most common qns in GP. Somehow, this made me think abt my two good fren's relationship. if they read it they will know who they are, and most prob some others too. somehow i cant seem to say it to their face, esp my best fren. So i hope when they read this, they will realise something and not be angry with me.

If she gets hurt by this and thinks i dont understand her as her best fren, then im sry. If i dun understand now, i never will. i know u get hurt when ppl say this: u dont treat him seriously. And whenever u tell me tt, i told u to ignore them and look within urself. Do u think so too? And i think i've told u once (or maybe a couple of times) tt i oso think tt u dun appreciate him enough. maybe u really treat the relationship seriously, but ur actions are overlooked by others. i dunno.

i just know tt he's making himself miserable for u. i know u are miserable too. BUT the difference is, he's miserable because, to him, u are not putting enough effort to make things work. u are miserable because, things simply doesnt work. period. At least, this is wad it seems to me. As u already know, the main problem between the two of u is because of wadever stuff u have, in addition to council, u are extremely busy. And tt's why u cant spend much time together.

But is spending just one saturday/sunday every 1 or 2 months too much to ask for? I know u guys are in the same class and u spend almost every after sch together after sch. But dont u think spending time after sch and going out on a weekend is vastly different? And how abt the promises u made to him and nvr fulfilled? How abt the times when u seem nonchalent abt everything? like it isnt of importance? maybe it isnt so, but like i said, hardly anyone can tell.

And before he gets all self righteous, please also understand tt she has really alot of things going on in her life. And yes, altho she make herself seem busier than she is, she still has alot to do. I know u have compromised alot for her, and sometimes u just want to give up everything. But wouldnt tt be a pity? i mean, when u guys are together, i see tt u guys are really happy.

It seems a pity to give up everything now. but with the things are going, with all the hurt u guys are inflicting upon each other, maybe ur decision is right. No matter what, u guys will always remain my friends.